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Communication for Life
Polly Harder


  To provide a uniquely designed training program so anyone can achieve their destiny through effective communication and character.

 One's destiny is never accomplished by accident. It takes two key ingredients. The first is effective communication. The second is character. Both can be developed through proper training. Everything we desire to communicate, whether it is a verbal or physical presentation, starts with a thought. William Makepeace Thackeray summed it up the best when he wrote:

 "We sow a thought and reap an act,
  We sow an act and reap a habit,
  We sow a habit and reap character,
  We sow character and reap destiny."

 It is true. Our thoughts ultimately dictate our every emotion, reaction, and then a response. How each individual hears, analyzes or perceives their thoughts becomes pivotal in the success of their communication process. What do they really hear? Do they possess the ability to listen? Can they accurately correlate what they hear into a set of responses that creates their desired end?

 Herein lies two of the biggest flaws in the communication process. People do not clearly and accurately express what they mean to say, and many individuals lack the ability to correctly hear the message being presented. Many times conflicts in the work place are the result of these two. Directions or orders are given, and it appears they are not carried out. The end result is less than productive. There is lost time and energy involved in finding the solution, and then in administering the appropriate follow through.


 The COMMUNICATION FOR LIFETM program is designed to help each individual get acquainted with themselves. As strange as it may seem, most individuals really don't know who they are or what their ultimate destiny is in life. Even the most successful, have admitted to feeling an inner void or sense of unfulfillment. The first question this program helps people find the answer to is, "Who am I?" We are who we are because of our pasts, where we come from, what we've experienced - good and bad - and how we truthfully feel about ourselves.

 This program, unlike other success, motivational sessions, doesn't just focus on what steps to implement for outer change. It focuses on the inner man. It teaches an individual how to look at the deepest places within, to quit lying to themselves, to overcome their past, and then it offers a uniquely designed program just for them. The end result is a new character with not only the ability to communicate more effectively with others, but it also empowers them to communicate the truth to themselves. Both lead them to greater personal and corporate success.

 The COMMUNICATION FOR LIFETM program creates a non-threatening environment, which allows each individual the opportunity to freely express thoughts and emotions. In this time of sharing and learning, personal growth and strength emerges. Their way of thinking is changed, and they are able to reach a new place of personal satisfaction.

 Within each of us there is the ability to overcome and succeed. However, most people don't know how to overcome. They don't know what steps to take or how to get on the right path. They don't know how to identify the road blocks that have them going the wrong way, and in many cases, have them totally stopped, virtually non-functioning as they attempt to continue down the road. Our thoughts will ultimately choose our road to destiny.

 COMMUNICATION FOR LIFETM offers every participant the tools to move from the path they are on to the ultimate journey they are destined to reach. This program is custom designed for each group of participants. That is why it is so dynamic, and it is certain to achieve its destined end. Lives will be changed. This inner renewal and strength is what builds character. Character will force them to excel in all they desire and strive to achieve. Character creates great individuals and even greater employees. The overall benefits can be astounding.

 COMMUNICATION FOR LIFETM consists of three distinctive areas of focus and development.

 Each of these areas is specially designed for either individual or group participation. After a brief time of observation, a recommendation will be made and a structured program will be implemented.

 Think About It! Think about the difference you could make, not only in your own life, but in literally hundreds of people's lives. Remember…It all starts with a thought.

 Reaching your destiny through effective communication and character

 According to Merriam Webster's Collegiate® Dictionary, Tenth Edition, by definition:

 EFFECTIVE: Production of or the power to produce-by design-and accomplish a distinctive or desired result, impression, or effect.

To transmit information, thought, or feeling so that it is satisfactorily received or understood; a technique for expressing ideas effectively.

One of the attributes or features that make up and distinguish an individual; the complex of mental and ethical traits marking and often individualizing a person, group, or nation; moral excellence and firmness; a person marked by notable or conspicuous traits...

One who specializes in a particular occupation, practice, or branch of learning; applies or directs for a specific end or use; is designed or fitted for one particular purpose or occupation; is marked with a quality, aptitude, or skill.


 "Polly uniquely blends a pragmatic way in applying profound, affective communication with step by step principles to achieve an end result that is life changing. Each individual who participates with or through her counseling and personal training develops a new confidence and a more excellent method of reaching their destined outcome. There is nothing quite as rewarding as watching these principles take place in an individual or their work environment. She is successful in motivating and moving people from where they are to where they want and need to be. Polly brings a refreshing approach, which allows each individual to obtain a higher achievement of success. She is dynamic, professional, but always 'real' in her style of encouraging others. She has my highest recommendation."

Linda M., Office Manager

 "The first impression is always lasting and important. The first impression the new supervisors had of their management training rested squarely on your shoulders. Judging from their comments on the attached evaluation sheets, you made a very positive impression. The comment that sums up the image that we want the class to have was stated the best by the new supervisor Kathy: (Polly is) 'extremely professional, but cordial!' I appreciate the fact that you prepared for this class on your days off. You did a great job!"

George A., Training Manager
 "Polly, I want to extend my thanks and appreciation for doing an outstanding job in the Management Training Program. Your professional demeanor and presentation skills are a reflection of your importance to the team. I'm confident that the value that the Supervisors received from your instructional leadership will be an asset to their success. Thank You!!!"

Clem M., Director of Operations
Congratulations! It is obvious you did a tremendous job in helping prepare these individuals for their new career. Thanks.

"Bruce C., President
 "Polly, Thank you so much for helping me when I needed it so badly. I really appreciate you going to the President to try to solve the problem I had been experiencing with my paycheck lately. I'm especially thankful for going out in the rain to get the money, the traffic must have been horrible. I also wanted to let you know that my check was absolutely correct this time. Thanks again, Sincerely,"

Michelle M., Operator
 "Dear Polly,
I am writing to thank you again for your help. I am grateful for your taking the time from your busy schedule to give me the advice and the encouragement I needed. Your support has been extremely important to me. Thank you."

Thomas D., Supervisor
 "Polly - I would like to thank you for allowing me the opportunity to develop myself and to prepare for advancement here. This has been a valuable stop and learning for me. Thank you, also for your positive outlook on every situation. You've helped me be positive about situations which I was unsure of! Congratulations on your move and I really look forward to working as closely with you again someday!"

Michael S., Operator
 "Polly, Just wanted to say Thank You for recognizing me and giving me the chance to 'Shine' with our special project. You have given me the faith, in myself, and the courage it takes and I really appreciate it. You are a super friend and a great Supervisor."

Kristi C., Quality Assurance
 "When special people touch our lives, then suddenly we see how beautiful and wonderful our world can really be. I sincerely appreciate your support while I'm going through my crisis."

Judi R., Operator


For more information regarding COMMUNICATION FOR LIFETM, please contact Polly Harder at:

Polly Harder
848 N. Rainbow Blvd. #479
Las Vegas, NV. 89107

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